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HAVING A SENSE OF HUMOUR
An essential skill in Spiritual High Sex is a sense of lighthearted playfulness and humour. There are many times in having a loving and sexual relationship with your partner that situations develop that might make you feel embarrassed with someone you are not close to. However, with your loving, spiritual, sexual partner, you should be able to feel relaxed and at ease enough so that you can laugh with each other and continue to arouse each other and be aroused sexually.
Usually these situations are unexpected and you don't want them to stop the creative process of loving each other.
You can probably think of some situations that might develop. I'll clue you in to some which have happened to me personally, so you don't have to admit them to yourself and you can laugh at me instead. Believe me when I tell you that you can get past them and continue the loving. These situations all happened to me and my partner the same evening, so it couldn't get much worse.
After having a wonderful dinner, my sweet, loving partner and I went to bed to make love. Upon getting into bed, I bent over quickly and oops, broke wind very loudly. Okay, let's be honest and call it what it was. I farted loudly. I felt so embarrassed, having been raised in the generation that taught us to make the man think that women don't do such things.
My loving partner is of the same generation, but men are more at ease with these situations with other men. He said to me, "The men in my family think farting is funny so now you can feel you are part of the family too." While laughing so hard tears rolled out of my eyes, I felt even more love for him for being so sweet to me.
Not much later than that, we were laying close to each other and decided to move suddenly. My breast stuck to his chest for some reason. I hollered ouch without thinking and my sweet partner said, "Now we are bosom buddies." And we started giggling.
The loving continued and just as I was reaching a sweet, wonderful orgasm, another family member pulled his truck into the driveway, shining a brilliant bright light into the room at the same instant. I was howling quite loudly in the middle of the orgasm, and the family member opened the house door just a few feet away from our bedroom door. I clamped my hand over my mouth to squelch my noise while continuing to enjoy the exquisite orgasm my lover had just given to me. He continued to whisper sweet loving words in my ear Believe me, when the orgasm subsided into sweet peace, we laughed for a long time at what had happeend.
In real life, many types of situations can develop between two loving partners. Don't take life so seriously that you can't laugh at yourself or with your partner. High spiritual sex shouldn't be such a serious situation where you think you can't have fun too. Being lighthearted and playful will actually help you achieve that free feeling inside that allows the relaxation necessary to bring on the high spiritual orgasms that bring you closer to being ONE with your spiritual source.
Have you ever laughed your way out of a high orgasm. There is nothing more joyous or makes you feel more close to your partner. Laughter breaks down barriers between people and makes you feel closer to them.
Men will find themselves in situations occasionally that will make them feel embarrassed also. For instance, what if he loses his erection for some reason beyond his control or his partners? This is a serious situation for some men that can cause problems because they might fear it'll happen again the next time. If the female partner stays lighthearted and playful, the female can take charge of the situation and give her partner a wonderful oral orgasm with a big smile on her face that will make him feel so much love that he won't be afraid to try again the next time.
One should never feel so self-centered that they can't be all-giving even if they aren't reciprocated in that same moment. Always keep the moments lighthearted. Don't automatically think that you are losing out because you didn't get 'yours'. Next time, your partner will feel so much love for you, that he will want to make sure that you get the best orgasm you ever had. Believe me, you will feel like you did. .
And always remember too, that if your partner doesn't reciprocate at that moment, with oral or manual stimulation for you, you can always relieve any frustration by yourself. In Tantra-High Spiritual Sex, loving yourself is not a shameful thing to do.