PREPARING THE PLACE
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This is the time for you to express yourself, to let your imagination run wild. Think of the most romantic atmosphere your mind can come up with. This is what you are going to create so that you can feel special so that you and your partner can be intimate, safe, and secure with each other. Remember too, your space is going to be used for a sacred ceremony between the two of you. The practice of Tantra - High Spiritual Sex is not just coming together for lustful sex, High Spiritual Sex is going to take you out of yourself and into a space in Heaven.
You will be creating a sanctuary to protect you from the noise and distraction of the outside world. There will be no telephone, no television picture flashing in the background, alarm clocks are shut off, there are no children bouncing on the bed in the next room, there are no trains going by outside your window hopefully, there will not be a puppy dog or cat making noises at the door nor sharing your bed, nor a baby crying for your attention. This is to be YOUR special time and place, just for you and your partner.
Now that you have eliminated all of the above, you are ready to put into place all the things that will bring to your mind romance, love, intimacy, a place for delight, ecstatic lovemaking, and bliss. Creating this space not only makes it sensual, it creates a psychological environment which is special and allows your desires to be fulfilled, your emotions to be freely expressed, and ultimate pleasure to be shared.
Tantra - High Spiritual Sex is a sacred union - a ritual - a ceremony - a celebration. This place should be such that you feel sacred and loved.
Whatever room you choose to be your sanctuary, it should be cleaned, dusted, have no unnecessary furniture or stuff as I like to call it. No magazines, books, toys, ashtrays. You will need room to move around in, at least the size of two beds side by side if you can manage it. You can always adapt the exercises and rituals to the accommodations you have but try to use a space that is as large as you can manage.
You can decorate this space with special paintings, photographs, fabrics, fabulous green plants or whatever makes you feel romantic. You can use flowers, candles, bells, sculpture, pottery, or even special "power objects" such as magic wands, crystals, or feathers.
Lighting should be soft and indirect. Candlelit rooms are extremely romantic.
Sounds should also be taken into consideration. You might want to invest in a singing crystal bowl, a tambourine, a drum, a bell, a triangle, or gongs with a pleasing sound. A stereo for special music that makes you feel romantic will be a welcomed addition.
Scents are also very important. Whatever makes you feel special is what you should use. You might want a sense of purity, or a sense of being exotic. Your choice of scents should bring this to your mind. Buy some incense or scented candles in your favorite flavor. This is the time to indulge yourself. This is your celebration.
What you wear for your celebration will also be important. Though you ultimately end up with nothing on your body but oils and scents, you want to stimulate the atmosphere with a sense of specialness, and your clothing helps to do that. You might want to purchase special underwear, a teddy, a sarong, something really exotic or beautiful. Silk, satin, or velvet are very sensual.
This is your special space, your sanctuary, your church of Tantra-High Spiritual Sex. Make it the special place it is meant to