DEALING WITH FEARS
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The sexual union we wish to produce is to honor each other and build a bridge between body and soul. This is possible through a structured process usable by anyone who wants to find a gentle and conscious way to express their love with another person or even with themselves.
Though regular sex is enjoyable, it is rarely so good that it satisfies our inner needs. Tantra - High Spiritual Sex is a sacred communion with a partner or with oneself which enhances our connection with the life force itself and our deepest creative impulses.
People, even today, who think they are giving their all to their partner are withholding and repressing enormous parts of themselves due to fear and the end result is feeling like they are being used. Their lovemaking doesn't fulfill the need for people to feel a deep communion with the other person and becomes just a tense encounter with another body in which both people repress their real needs.
The lovemaking is reduced to a performance where we compete with the other person to see who can get off faster or better.
There are several main fears we have brought on by religious mores. One is that sex is for procreation only. So, once we have our two children, a boy and girl so that both people are happy, what do we do with the rest of our lives? High Spiritual Sex takes us past this block in our minds to pure ecstasy.
Another religious restraint is that sex is somehow shameful although everyone does it. AIDS and pornography have come from this false shame. High Spiritual Sex goes beyond all you may have seen before into the perception that the erotic experience is a celebration, an art, and an act of creation.
In movies and television and pornographic films and even in school and religious teachings, we are shown ways that others make love and we think that is the only way there is. If we are at all innovative, we feel shame and guilt. High Spiritual Sex will teach you that you can enjoy a myriad of techniques and positions and allow you to invent your own if you wish. This teaching is to allow total JOY.
Our previous experience tells us that the only good sex is intercourse. What happens if that is not possible and two people still want to enjoy each other and have sexual communion. Reality is that the entire body is an erogenous zone and you may find that you can arouse yourself to orgasm with only a look into each other's eyes.
Men think that sex equals ejaculation. But once they have ejaculated, they are finished. In High Spiritual Sex, the erotic response can be long lasting, their ejaculation can be controlled and prolonged so that the couple can enjoy long lasting intimacy, exploration, and sensitivity.
People think that Tantra requires celibacy. And indeed people without partners can enjoy their own bodies. High Spiritual Sex allows one to celebrate one's own God created body all the way to orgasm. But Tantra is not just for one person. It is to celebrate union with each other and brings one to feel the connection with God through the sexual response that our Higher Source created for us.
Tantra - High Spiritual Sex is not an orgiastic indulgence. There is no good or bad, no right and wrong, no moral judgements on specific performances or what is acceptable or unacceptable,
Tantra - High Spiritual Sex will allow you to go beyond any boundaries you have conceived and enjoy this God created gift of LOVE in a total response to what originally came from our Higher Source and together with a partner or even by yourself return emotionally and spiritually into a ONENESS that surpasses all past experiences.
High Spiritual Sex is a communion of hearts, lovemaking that can carry you into an experience of ecstasy. Yet, people have trouble trusting their partners so they hold back vital feelings and emotions. They are afraid of rejection, feelings of inferiority, unexpressed resentments from difficult past experiences, and all manner of emotional fears. High Spiritual Sex will bring them into the forefront where you can deal with them as High Spiritual Sex is far more intimate that any other sexual union you have ever had previously.
The energies coming through your body with your partner will make these fears surface which is a good thing though you might not think so at this moment, because unless you deal with them you cannot heal. When these demons of fear arise in you, you can confront them, accept them, make friends with them, make them your allies, and you will ultimately transcend them.
The more open and vulnerable you can be wtih your partner, the more your trust in each other will grow. As you begin to feel accepted and more intimate, the more the love will grow.
When the first rush of romance passes, and it will, you will begin to see and confront differences between you and your partner. Trust in each other and a commitment to one another will get you past them, you will accept your differences, learn from one another and become more mature and understanding. There is no blame in being different and you will recognize that you both bring gifts to the relationship that make it nourishing and rewarding.
Even beautiful people feel ugly at times, scrutinize themselves endlessly and feel unworthy of being loved. You will come in the practice of High Spiritual Sex to discover the inner self that is whole and capable of experiencing the fullness of sexual pleasure. You will learn to give to yourself first everything that you would give to your beloved. You hold your sexual destiny within yourself.
This does not happen overnight. In trust and openness it means you need to let go of defenses. For this to happen you need to feel protected and secure. To do this you need a place where you feel comfortable and special. You can create this space and we will deal with it in the next chapter.