Tantra Massage Los Angeles for Singles
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There are many different ways of defining and teaching Tantra. We don't
pretend to have all the answers and can only teach in a way that seems
appropriate for us. We hope the following FAQ will give you a sense of our
philosophy and approach to teaching.
Q. Do you offer "tantric massage"?
A. No. We feel that we can teach more effectively if we do not engage in "hands
on" work with our students. Nevertheless, we recognize that this modality may
play an important role in healing and can be a valuable teaching tool for more
advanced students.
Q. Is Tantra a form of therapy?
A. Practicing Tantra can be highly therapeutic; however, we are not trained as
therapists. We believe that much tantric healing emerges from the student's
commitment to doing the work and from regular practice. We also caution couples
that Tantra is not couples' therapy. Tantric practice can deepen and enhance
intimacy in powerful ways, but it can also bring unresolved tensions and
problems to the surface. It is important for couples who wish to practice Tantra
together to have good communication skills and clear agreements between them
when entering onto this path.
Q. How can practicing Tantra improve my relationship?
A. It can improve your relationship in many ways. On a purely physical level,
using tantric techniques will enhance your lovemaking skills. More importantly,
the practice of Tantra will help you to see the divinity within your lover and
develop the capacity to be more fully present in all of your interactions.
Q. I am single; can I still practice Tantra?
A. Yes. There are many techniques, both sexual and non-sexual, that can be
practiced alone. We do not work privately with singles; however, we encourage
single people to attend our open, introductory classes, to meditate regularly
and to cultivate awareness of their body energies. In fact, most Tantric
practices are solo practices, and in our own lives, each of us devotes a
considerable amount of time every day to individual practice.
Q. What if my partner doesn't want to attend the workshop with me?
A. This is a complex issue. In general, we discourage people in relationships
from exploring the sexual aspects of Tantra without the knowledge and
participation of their partners. The energies unleashed in tantric practice are
powerful, and the potential for imbalance is great if one partner starts to
practice Tantra without the other.
Q. How will I personally benefit from practicing Tantra?
A. If you are willing to do the work, you are likely to experience an increase
in your overall sense of well-being, self-awareness and capacity to give and
receive pleasure. You may find that certain negative behavior patterns and other
personal problems will begin to resolve themselves. You may discover a new
capacity to relax and experience a greater sense of personal freedom.
Q. Is Tantra a religion?
A. Tantra is a spiritual science and is a current in many religions,
particularly Hinduism and Buddhism. Our teachers come from the Hindu tradition,
but it is not necessary to become a Hindu to practice Tantra. Tantra is
non-dogmatic and honors the truth of experience rather than abstract faith. In
our teaching, we do emphasize ritual and encourage our students to become
increasingly aware of their partner's innate divinity and to recognize the
divine in all aspects of life.
Q. What can I expect from a class or a private session?
A. Our introductory, public classes are aimed at the beginner and offer an
overview of tantric history and philosophy combined with some simple but very
powerful techniques for beginning to practice Tantra. The classes are very safe
and may include some interaction involving eye-gazing and light touch, as well
as some exercises for enhancing awareness of breath. Our private sessions are
similar, and we feel it is very important to build a strong foundation before
moving into any more challenging exercises.
